submissivefeminist:love-and-bdsm:submissivefeminist:Tip for Dominants: Never punish your submi
submissivefeminist: love-and-bdsm: submissivefeminist: Tip for Dominants: Never punish your submissive for asking for something, regardless of what it is. This teaches them not to be honest with you and hinders communication. If what they ask is unreasonable or a personal hard limit, tell them so. Do not punish them for communicating desires or concerns under any circumstance. Is it bad that your comment confused me at first? I was thinking the spanking was a reward for doing a good job opening up… No; it could have very-well been meant like that. But I read, “worst case” and assume the spanking would be a form of punishment, hence my comment. I didn’t meant to say treatingherwell meant it this way, because he probably didn’t, but I wanted to add that in there, either way. I like subs who ask questions and would never punish one for doing so. Nothing is more important than communication! -- source link
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