fortheloveofsubmission: Communication is so imperative to our lifestyle. In good times and bad. You
fortheloveofsubmission: Communication is so imperative to our lifestyle. In good times and bad. You have a responsibility as a sub that you must be open and talk out any feelings you have right away, do not hold them in and think it will go away, it won’t… it gets worse and you can make a mountain out of a mole hill if you don’t open up, our minds do that. Never be ashamed to express feelings. Your Dom is there to help you understand any concerns you have, that is a Doms job. So don’t be afraid to be open and honest and communicate, communicate, communicate. Your Dom should NEVER discourage this, they should encourage this actually. Hopefully your Dom will do the same with being open and honest expressing their feelings as well so you have a sense of security. After all communication is necessary for building trust and to reach that deep deep psychological part of our relationship which is so unique, the vanilla world could never understand the depth because we are somehow known as freaks… if they only understood, we have worked a formula with protocol and etiquette to enhance our relationships through this lifestyle that works in our own unique ways.. we have very healthy relationships, not damaging or secret ones. Last but not least ‘communication’ is VITAL to the relationship being safe, sane, and consensual please remember that and never be afraid to be open honest and talk. <3 ~Julie~ -- source link