Hey everyone!!! Still here, still queer!Sorry I (we) haven’t posted much as of late&
Hey everyone!!! Still here, still queer! Sorry I (we) haven’t posted much as of late…but I have some free time today and wanted to hop on here with a quick update. J and I are extremely busy both with working two jobs and/or college. It’s been hectic, but things are beginning to look up for the new year! I’ll be graduating soon (April) and he will be making a huge career change which we will be moving to a new city/state for in November! until then we have to hustle and save up a fk ton of money for the big move! As far as relationships go…things are getting better between J and I. If you recall, 2015 was a struggle for us and a huge period of growth, too. We opened up our minds and hearts, and learned how complex the overlapping of polyamory and bdsm can be….we were not able to do counseling like we once planned, but have been able to get through things quite a bit on our own. Speaking of polyamory….We currently aren’t dating anyone else outside of our marriage together or separately. Things with the girlfriend that we both dated didn’t work out. Some times things break apart. It doesn’t have to be anyone’s fault. It doesn’t have to be ugly. It just isn’t meant to be…and that’s okay. Polyamorous break ups can be just as tough and painful as monogamous break ups. The only difference for us, is that J and I are not “out” as polyamorous. Nor am I 100% “out” as bisexual so it’s not as easy for us to talk it over with someone while hurting. Anyway, this is becoming much longer than anticipated. I feel like it will be easier for us to move forward and date people again once we move. Right now there is not enough time. Plus, this isn’t a super poly/lgbt friendly community so we don’t have much opportunity! Anyone reading this, I hope the start to your 2016 has been fabulous so far! Are you guys having much luck in your poly dating lives??? -A -- source link
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