Here’s the state of my kink toys after Wednesday’s date with The Anarchist Econo

Here’s the state of my kink toys after Wednesday’s date with The Anarchist Economist. Also a picture of my butt in adorable af panties I wore.My initial thought after our first date was that the first time we played, we would just stick to impact and topping things, and not veer so much into me saying words at him or being dominant. The more our texting turned towards sexting, however, the more interested I became in calling him names and making fun of his small cock. He shared quite a few fantasies with me, and I got off thinking about doing those things to him. As you’ll see, we didn’t totally avoid playing with power.I should have known he’d be able to pull out my dominant side, since during that first date (which I’ll have to write up someday) there were several times I found myself wanting to grab him by the hair, push him up against a wall, or put my hand around his throat.Summary: Wednesday afternoon was so fucking wonderful! We have a lot of shared interests in a lot of different ways. TAE is intelligent and adorable and interesting and educated and sexy and goddamn does he have the most delectable reactions. Also, apparently in addition to being good at topping, I can be quite the dommy little d-type when I’m properly inspired by the right subby person. I guess I don’t hate power dynamics; I just like them in the other direction these days. When we got to my apartment, The Anarchist Economist and I talked for a little bit, and I showed him some of my toys, including impact tools and dildos. I suggested that we go cuddle on the couch and watch some Leverage (anti-corporate direct action, anyone?) and cuddle. I figured it would help me, and probably him, relax and get comfortable. Plus, Netflix and chill is a great way to get things going.We settled in next to each other and started watching. Gradually we started touching more, and then started kissing. I climbed on top of him, straddled him, and got to work learning his body, likes, and dislikes. Neck stuff (including hand(s) around the neck, unf), ear stuff, nipple stuff. Especially biting. Hard biting.I told him to take off his shirt so that I could mark him in less visible places. I reciprocated by taking off my own shirt and he was super into that whole experience. We kept making out and I bit the shit out of his neck and shoulders. I grabbed him various places, and we had a quick conversation about pressure points. It seems obvious now, especially because I’d never really thought about it prior to going to some kink events, but most people don’t necessarily talk about using pressure points as a distinct activity.TAE said something about me spanking him and asked if he could take off his pants and underwear. I let him know he could leave on or take off whatever he was comfortable with. He took it all off, and happily jumped towards the bed. At this point I was still intending to mostly stick to the topping and impact, and not veer off into being too dominant, but all of his reactions on the couch had me starting to feel dommy.We started off with me spanking him and getting an idea of his pain thresholds. He’s one of the weird ones who likes stingy pain, which is very exciting to me, since the people I usually hit much prefer thuddy. I used a bunch of my hitting implements on him to see which ones he liked and which he didn’t, and, to my delight, he liked the things that I use the least.After I’d spent some time smacking him with things, he yellowed (after making this…trilling(?) noise? that I’m going to take as a pre-yellow warning), so we cuddled on the bed and made out more. At some point TAE asked if he could be on his knees, and he knelt in front of me as I was sitting on the bed. I really like the look of him on his knees looking up at me.He asked me if he could watch me masturbate. My initial response was to say no, since I have some anxiety around orgasms, but then he started sucking on and licking my tits and making more of those amazing noises. He was so desperate and needy and kept bucking up into me. Fuck, it makes my cunt clench just thinking about it.I changed my mind about masturbating and had him lay next to me on the bed to touch me while I used a vibrator. I told him to give me part of him to grab, and instructed him to tell me about a fantasy. He told me a couple that involved elements of cuckoldry and name calling. Normally I have to work fairly hard to fantasize so I can get off, but this time he did that work for me, so I came quickly and I came hard.The Anarchist Economist was super into it and said many nice things to me. I was tempted to get him off, but I was feeling dominant, so I told him he couldn’t come then and there. Instead, I instructed him to do it later and send me pictures (he did and it was hella sexy). We lay there and cuddled and talked about kinks and ideology and politics and life. One of the things we talked about was Not A Tumblr Dom and potentially doing things with all three of us, which is an idea I am very into.We decided to go back to the couch and watch more Leverage. We got maybe twenty minutes in before we were all over each other again. He really likes having his hair pulled, and I really like pulling his hair. I’m certain he has no idea what happened in that episode. We both had places to be, so we walked to the train together. While we were waiting, he told me about a scene idea that I had independently had and am very excited about having someone to potentially do it with: black bloc/cop beatdown scene. I’d previously imagined being the one receiving the beatdown, but I can certainly be the one dishing it out, instead.The whole afternoon, there were a lot of check-ins on both sides, and he complimented me so many times I lost count. And his reactions. Oh god his reactions. I’m wet just thinking about the noises he made and the way he moved.I like my new toy so very very much. -- source link

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