sirdragondomain: 4 types of masochistsPeople are different, and that’s okay.It so happened tha
sirdragondomain: 4 types of masochistsPeople are different, and that’s okay.It so happened that I am familiar with a fairly large number of masochists. And here’s what’s interesting.A masochist is a person who enjoys pain. But this does not make it clearer to us what to do with it.Then at some point I started asking a question before the action, which at first glance seems strange: “Why do you love pain?”.I really like the question “why?” and I advise you to use it quite often))) Masochists often remind me of something radically hungry kinesthetics)))So, ALL ANSWERS that I received can be divided into 4 groups (well, a mixed group))):1) I I love pain, because it puts me in some altered state2) I love pain, it is different and tasty, I bathe in it as in sensation.3) I love pain because I feel punished.4) I love pain, because after that there will be cool sex, it turns me on and excites pain.Next, you need to understand that pain is different. And different masochists like different pain. It’s amazing, right?)))So I realized that masochists have different motivations in wanting pain. Those actions that suit one type are completely unnecessary for another.So what are these 4 types? What to do with them? And how to build an action script based on this?1) This is a tendency to trance states. Here, pain as such is not needed and its strength will only bring down. Also, spanking for patience is also not needed. Rhythmic pats of approximately the same strength, you can shake it at the same time. The graph of rhythm and strength is smooth, not torn. Great leaving work with one flogger.If you want to smack hard - set the level of strength from the very beginning, then the model can cry well.Bondage - yes. Not sadistic for one leg, but chest and lumbar harness, with swaying like on a swing.Sex is excellent, with rhythmic spanking. Let it sink in, keep a smooth rhythm.2) Here contrasts come in better. Spanking with a flog and a cat, a cat and a snack. We combine pops and biting blows. Rhythm can be broken, accelerated and stopped again. Reach the limits of patience.Energy outlets can be aggressive towards you and you need to be prepared for this. Let’s use devices of different tastes, you can bite, pull your hair, do bastinado and trampling. Kicks, if you know how to do it, will also come in well (if this is not perceived as a humiliation - then it may be taboo). Complete the candle with ice, and the whip with jump ropes and a wet towel.3) It is often DS lower. You can spank her ass and lock her in a closet - she can perfectly cry there. During action, verbal and non-verbal humiliation is often needed. Action also needs a reason. Any. From poorly washed dishes to messy hair. You can drag it by the ear. The order to ask for forgiveness can lead to tears and give unloading even without slaps on the pope.4) You can give it hard on the ass with your hand a couple of times, put it in cancer and have sex. In the process of sex, pain will also help. Extreme pain in contrast to type 2 - can knock you off the wave. Here the whole point is with a sense of strength and power of a partner. But games of punishment will not be understood. You spank her not because she’s punished, but because you enjoy spanking her.The rhythm during spanking is usually short and long series with long breaks (from 15 seconds to a couple of minutes) in which you can add different sex.I did not compare types by blood types, but over time, in many ways, the type begins to be felt in the manner of command.Over time, with the satisfaction of needs, the masochist can move from one group to another. It can also change simply when the phases of the moon change, or simply “because!”.I categorized it like this. It will be nice, you will call this method of classification “according to the classification of the lower by the Artifact”. Although the main thing is that you understand yourself, and not how and what to call… SD..House of Dragons/ L.C.H. Boston Dungeon © -- source link