Spanking OutcomesThis week’s post looks at some of the key outcomes you might consider whe
Spanking OutcomesThis week’s post looks at some of the key outcomes you might consider when you Spank a boy for reasons rather than just for pleasure.The Spanking of your boy depends on a few key thingsIs he truly sorry for what he did?Sincere Apologies Who were the people affected by his actions? Are they still around for him to apologize to?Do you have any idea how difficult this is for a Grown Man to do? Think about ways you can do this with your boys. In what setting might this be appropriate? In a public park if your boy throws trash and there’s a park ranger? In a supermarket where your boy bumps a lady’s shopping trolley? There are all sorts of opportunities….think through them and use them as needed.Concrete example: Sincere Apologies: I was Spanked soundly at Camp Red Tails one year and Daddy John marched me into the main room where all the other Men Who Spank and boys were and was instructed to apologize for having to be Spanked while they were having a good time. He made me apologize for screaming and carrying on during the Spanking he had to adminster and in the process disturbing their post-dinner down time. Do you think he didn’t apologize sincerely? Thankfully, you are the Dad here. He can always be Spanked later in the car or on the way home along the side of the road.Addressing and CorrectingDid the error that caused the boy to need the paddling in the first place get addressed and corrected? If so, how? Harping on a bad behaviour never helps. All boys are good boys, some just act badly. So when and where possible, you need to find the time to address and correct bad behaviour, not bad boys. Good boys, however, require disciplining for unaddressed behaviour that does any of the following:Causes harm to self.Causes harm to others.Shows open defiance.Shows disrespect.Shows disobedience: a lack of concern for the Rules openly set down between you two. All boys are good boys.Some just behave badly.Verbal correction can help here. A verbal reminder that a standard course of action that can include the administering of CP that the boy knows full well about will tend to help teach him to curb his own behaviour without you having to intervene physically. And finally, if he doesn’t follow those communicated Rules and doesn’t listen to your voice inside his head, then you can resort to using The Stick to address and correct with Corporal Punishment.Concrete example: Addressing & Correcting. A few months ago, after many weeks of Daddy telling me to not put my empty refillable water bottle in the sink when we’re cooking chicken, he stopped telling me to not do so. Instead, I was sent to my room, and there he Spanked my bottom and explained during the Spanking why I was getting a Spanking. He could have continued (fruitlessly) to tell me to not put my upended bottle into the sink. Instead he upended me. After a few weeks went by, I will say, I still haven’t put my water bottle in the sink.Now Explain: Why Did I Have to Spank You?Consequences If there are no recourses like sincere apologies, what can a Daddy do?Cornertime can really help. Cornertime makes a boy stand there like a fool and think about what he did or did not do. But for some boys Cornertime doesn’t work and they do not do it well. There are other options for those boys.Writing Lines can bring your boy to heel as well. Having him write lines to never do what he did again, can help. Simple instructions like Copy this out neatly 25 times: “I will not say ‘No!’ to Daddy in that tone of voice ever again.” Also, this can be posted on the 'fridge for later, as a Behinder Reminder for your errant boy. He will think twice every time he opens the 'fridge door!Telling the Story of Why. Another great options is story telling. Requiring that he write out a story of what happened and what he’s learned from The Stick connecting with his fanny. This can be kept as a coffee table read for guests or for him to see each time he watches T.V. Writing Lines like this will work best for boys who can write. So many adult boys are not good at writing, so if he cannot write, at least have him write out lines that convey the same or similar message.Scolding. It’s impossible to really scold a boy into good behaviour. Moms have been trying this for years. The shrieking in the malls and stores across this country! Ugg! It usually just creates resentment. (At least in me it does!) Peaceful ResolutionsYou can give your boy a good talkin’-to in an effort to impress why his bottom is about to be Spanked or why his bottom had to be Spanked as hard as it was. Tie scolding or a talkin’-to to the act of Spanking where possible. If it feels forced and your boy doesn’t respond positively, then skip it. The Stick can do the job. But whenever possible, go beyond The Stick and get into his brain. You’ll be glad you did.________________________________________Follow Cornertime Confidential Wherever You Are:Tumblr ∙ Twitter ∙ Blogger ∙ WordPress -- source link
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