expressions-untold: The Patriarchy.. It fucks us men up too.It’s the reason why men who love
expressions-untold: The Patriarchy.. It fucks us men up too. It’s the reason why men who love their wives still pay other women to live out their fantasies. Because in our mind she can’t be classy and sexually free. It’s too much of a disconnect to think that the woman raising our kids is the same woman who wants two men because we were told our whole lives that that’s not what a wholesome woman is. It’s the reason why we are afraid to cry. Because in our eyes showing emotion makes us weak and our whole self image is based around being outwardly tough. It’s the reason why we mask our insecurities with fragile pride. Because when confronted with emotions we don’t like or are unfamiliar with we revert back to our most primal nature and show rage our power instead of understanding and empathy. It’s the reason why we ask for body counts yet ignore our own. Because we learn at a young age that “boys will be boys” so it’s ok to be sexual but for girls it’s damnation. It’s why when we’re told no we don’t know how to handle it. Because we are taught to conquer and when a woman isn’t interested she becomes a challenge we must overcome. It weakens us and fills our head with so many false ideas. It tells us that it’s our right to have a woman by our side regardless of how we act or who we are inside. It tells us that we can judge based on how covered up she is but not by whats in her mind. It leads us to believe that she only wants our muscle and money because in patriarchy we are the rock and foundation and if we aren’t financially stable we are worthless. It is the reason why we aren’t successful in our career we often lose ourselves. Because money equals power and without “land” to claim as our own we are worthless. See the old age ideas here? It is the reason why we raise our daughters differently than our sons. Because deep down we know that it’s fucked up. Yet patriarchy teaches us that we can’t change it. That’s it’s in our biology. So we perpetuate the same system that we warm our sisters, daughters, and family members from. Patriarchy. It fucks us men up too.. Photo by and of @expuntld (Ig) To see my uncensored work go to www.patreon.com/expuntld Expressions-Untold.com Snapchat: @expuntld Twitter: @expresionsuntld #expressionsuntold -- source link