strictotk:route82:There is a significant difference between a playful, intimate maintenance span
strictotk: route82: There is a significant difference between a playful, intimate maintenance spanking and a punishment spanking. A ‘real’ spanking only starts when it is getting really uncomfortable. One common way to administer it is to spank to tears, so to speak, and then add a certain number of swats. A lot of poeple are reluctant to cause that level of discomfort in a loved one, even if the punishment is agreed upon in some understanding or just part of a negotiated scene. However, the theory behind the practise is that you need to break something up before you can rebuild it in a stronger fashion, and to really tap into the powerful emotions involved in corporal discipline one must sometimes push past this zone of comfort. Done correctly, punishment sessions can be a very intense and rewarding experience for both. Picture originally posted by TanMyBackside here at Tumblr. For myself It’s always disciplinary and I don’t use a safe word because that puts me in charge of the spanking. -- source link