On this last day of 2021 I want to celebrate and shout out my bowl cut that held it down for me! The
On this last day of 2021 I want to celebrate and shout out my bowl cut that held it down for me! The real MVP!! I haven’t had my hair this length or in this one color for a very long time. It has taught me patience and has taught me to not give a fuck about what ppl think. It also inspired me to play specially with neon color eyeliners. I look like my 5 year old self. On the left side is a photograph of me holding the teddy I was given by my family when I first got to NYC. I think that explains why I now collect small stuffed animals (and big ones like the baby Yoda I got from Costco a couple of months ago that takes up most of the bed space). So 2021 recap- it’s was all about nourishing and tending and healing that inner child. Being the #nonbinary adult that tiny me dreamed of. And this year this adult rested, ate, cried, grew, had a fun birthday cake, wore all the sparkles, had depression, and kept rearranging their apt every other week because that’s how I channeled my anxiety. This adult can’t wait for the new year and more play and more rest and more naps and more delicious foods …. And I can’t wait to be able to tie this hair into a pony tail. I can’t wait for my mom to braid my hair again. ✨These are my New Years resolutions. For whom ever is reading this, if all you did was stay alive this year - that’s all that matters. Fuck any respectability capitalist and ableist New Years resolution posts and culture that has us thinking we had to do the *most. The accreditations, the gate keeping and fancy awards— that’s not where it is at. Fuck that type of success. Tell me of your sleeping plans, and how your heart feels. Tell me when you will soak your feet, and when your next therapy or Zumba class is. On this last day of 2021 I’m so happy to know you are still alive with us. Remember I’m rooting for you and your cute hair styles!!! However you are celebrating this evening- stay safe and hug your fur animals cuz those fireworks are already going off! #qtpoc #artist #migrant #lgbtq #indigenous #papifemme (at Los Angeles, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/CYKrFGNv78k/?utm_medium=tumblr -- source link
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