bdsm-training: When you are out, you should not only expect men to grope you. You should dress and p
bdsm-training: When you are out, you should not only expect men to grope you. You should dress and present yourself in a way that holds space and makes it clear you are receptive to them groping you. If in doubt, start to include small touches of them into your conversation. Put your hand casually on their arm or leg briefly as part of a funny comment. Scoot closer immediately after lifting your hand away. Ask if they want to sit somewhere it is easier to hear each other talk, but lean in close to their ear and put your hand on them again. Pause briefly before you say it with your mouth close to their ear. As you begin to talk shift and open your legs very slightly allowing one leg to touch alongside of theirs if possible. -- source link