Daily Picture Assignment #15 Same outfit, different lighting. I often get out the door a lot later t
Daily Picture Assignment #15 Same outfit, different lighting. I often get out the door a lot later than I intend. Much of that lateness is because I’m terribly indecisive about outfits, especially when I’m having a bad self-esteem day. I know that can annoy the crap out of Reaction Junkie, so I decided to do something about it. With some people, I would ask them to pick out an outfit for me, but I know that’s not exactly Reaction Junkie’s forte. Instead, I decided to tailor my submission to fit him, which is exactly what I ought to do. My submission to him isn’t all about what I like. It’s primarily about what he likes, and what he likes doing with me. I shouldn’t try to fit any given d/s dynamic into some mold, or match some other relationship. I need to take my submission and obedience, his dominance and ownership, our d/s, and cherish it for the beautiful unique thing it is. So, this morning I asked him whether I should wear shorts, a skirt, or a dress. That way, he got to make decisions about my clothes, without requiring much time or effort in his part. He told me I should wear a skirt, so I picked one out and built an outfit around it I thought he would like. I satisfied my desire to be told what to wear while still focusing on what Reaction Junkie enjoys. And I got out the door faster, which means I’ll get to happy hour sooner, which means I’ll get to see him earlier, which means I’ll be screaming, crying, laughing, and cuddling as soon as possible. PS. This skirt has pockets and it’s fantastic! -- source link
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