kuronekochantomidorime: This kind of mentality is something you intuitively want to agree with but w
kuronekochantomidorime: This kind of mentality is something you intuitively want to agree with but will not actually serve you at all. There are so many toxic deductions to be made from this especially with an anxious brain. Wondering if your partner is the great one or just the good one. wondering if you are. Devalueing a good partner or overvaluing someone who doesn’t match you. Panicking because you’re Single. Etc etc. Nobody can make a promise such as this. Nobody can predict your life. Shut up, Nostradamus. In the right mindset, with abundant love and self love, you can make a lot of great connections and there is no need compare or rank them. A person who might be right for you in one phase of your life might not be in another and that’s normal, and doesn’t say anything about that person’s “quality”. Don’t waste your time with mentalities like this and focus on what feels right to you. -- source link