yxngsushi:xhoneycocanee:thaunderground:paradise-jpg:Damndeepyo i saw this across my da
yxngsushi: xhoneycocanee: thaunderground: paradise-jpg: Damn deep yo i saw this across my dash SO many times & I’m just now understanding it so this is cute and all but I want to add something: don’t over-extend this metaphorif someone gives me $10 of emotional support when I’m depressed and someone else gives me $20 of emotional support when I’m depressed, it doesn’t matter how much “money” (emotional capacity for support, yes it’s finite on an individual level) each person started with because I need as much of that shit as I can get. And it’s okay for me to rely more on the $20 friend than the $10 friend, because sometimes the thought isn’t what counts. It’s who comes through - who can be depended on to give $20 of emotional support on a regular basis, not who will give you 100% of their emotional energy and then be completely “broke” because they didn’t take care of themselves.Going back to the literal case of money, come to think of it…. I think I’d feel pretty fucking weird if someone gave me their entire budget. Like they were gonna expect some kind of return on that investment. -- source link