firefly-flashes: mr–echo: I wish more “submissives” understood this…It&rsqu
firefly-flashes: mr–echo: I wish more “submissives” understood this…It’s a “choice”It’s always a choice It is, at least for me. I’m not always submissive. I have to work on it. At, work, I’m the boss. I lead. I direct. I teach. At home, as a parent, I have to be the one in charge. I have to make decisions. I have to get things done.Sometimes I like it that way; sometimes it exhausts me. I will never be a perfect, pliant, obedient submissive. I have thoughts and opinions and I’m not afraid to share them. If someone wants to be my Dominant, then that person has to be more dominant than I am. More on top of things. More of a leader. And that’s not an easy thing to be. But here’s the thing - I’m not just a set of holes and some curves in between. I have a kick-ass brain. A filthy imagination. And endless supply of filthy thoughts and a willingness to focus my attention and energy into pleasing my partner. That person who will be my Dominant? I’m going to choose him, over any other I could have chosen, and I’m going to proclaim that choice openly, joyously. I’m going to work hard at being submissive for him. He’s going to get all my effort. My passion. My dedication. He’s going to be worth it. Because he’s going to choose me, too. -- source link