Look at these thighs. They have their own area code. Do you think they fit in a size 8?!?So I&rsqu
Look at these thighs. They have their own area code. Do you think they fit in a size 8?!? So I’m at a phase in my yoga Instagram journey where various brands have started reaching out to me. Humbling and kind of cool. But the vast majority of these brands carry sizes that I so literally cannot fit into. And it created harm for me. Let me explain. I know all businesses aren’t the same and don’t have the same bankroll. I know that larger clothes cost more and I’m not going to count your pockets. But if you have a brand, please reach out to people RESPONSIBLY. Because you are causing violence for some of us who are already grappling with our body. My body is in a weird space. I can wear straight sizes sometimes on top, but I need an XL of XXL for my bottoms. So for me, when I see these opportunities coming in, that represent income and influence, when I see that my body is prohibiting me from access…..ah. Usually, I don’t care. But a brand reached out to me last night and I just felt a bit bummed. Why wasn’t I just a size smaller? Do I need to cut down on carbs? Am I limiting myself? I was able to reset. I was shocked, though, that it entered my mind, even for that moment. But I’m doing the work, so I was able to rebound back. But what I’d I can’t some days? And what about those who can’t at all? This was tough for me to write because I’m kind of embarrassed that I felt a little ashamed for a second. But if nothing else, I’m honest. This also is one of the reasons why I create my own yoga apparel. Most of the sizes go up to size 4X, which isn’t perfect, but it’s all my wholesaler has. And if I was going to ask someone to be a brand ambassador, I would do my research to make sure my apparel was readily accessible for her, as to not inflict harm on her psyche. What are thoughts? Am I doing too much? Have you experienced the same thing? If you feel me, I’d love a emoji - I need some love right now. Feeling kinda vulnerable. https://instagr.am/p/CI6HrgajKWn/ -- source link
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