wifiki:Being on here only a few days and seeing so much bullshit is beyond me! Like these made up so
wifiki:Being on here only a few days and seeing so much bullshit is beyond me! Like these made up social network memes that are supposed to be considered as “standards” of what folks will/will not allow when it comes to relationships and potential lovers is hysterical!We want love, but won’t put the work in required for the love to be authentic. People can have their opinions of an “ideal partner,” but what happens when that person goes against the grain from the lack of knowledge and/or love? You just stop loving them? Look back to a facebook meme you posted six months ago and say “I can’t deal?” Lol.I understand as human beings, a lot of our ideas are formed from past experiences, but then again, why allow your heart to dissipate because someone failed to see the truth in you?That’s why I feel it’s important (especially for us women - because we think mainly with emotions of the heart, our minds and souls) to remain strong & stay open, even when we aren’t loved as much as we think we deserve… We carry so much love in us, so it’s hard to think about staying true to love when ish hits the fan and love that’s unresponsive is actually manifesting… But to be real, there’s a reason certain people couldn’t show the love we seek - but like everything in the universe, there is balance for that… (example: You can’t have man without woman, man is more instinctually in tune, while us women are more intuitive… We must nurture each other with information about our strengths, building up our weaknesses with the new info. Together man and woman eventually become unified and have the power to create life).Point I’m trying to make is – You can love someone with all your heart, give it your absolute best, and stay true to that. No matter what mistakes were made in the relationship though, if they choose to deny the love you’ve given, that’s their loss. But as far as you, you have showed them what love is, what it looks like, what it feels like from the love/respect/knowledge you have of self and your relationship with the Creator. Every situation has a lesson… Sometimes we’re teachers, sometimes we’re students… But when it comes to love, we have the expertise to be the masters of our own hearts, we need to remain open and true even when we’re feeling closed in… Because one day, someone will recognize your beauty and truth- and the love from them seeing that alone will be reciprocated and we need to be more than willing to receive it!!! -- source link