doped-roped-groped:Getting to know your latest acqusition How I show my love to the boy I’m us
doped-roped-groped:Getting to know your latest acqusition How I show my love to the boy I’m using. Yes, your eyesight hasn’t suddenly failed you, I wrote ‘love.’ I really don’t know why or how the out-of-hate trope has gained so much currency in the way d/s relationships are depicted or fantasized about. I, for one, certainly don’t have contempt, let alone hate, for the sub I’m using. No, it’s profound genuine love. I’m certainly attracted to him, turned on by his submission. But just because his desires are on the polar opposite end of the spectrum from mine, doesn’t mean he’s inferior to, or lesser than, me. On the contrary, he’s as indispensable to me as I’m to him; without each other, we would be like a charged particle bereft of its opposite to be attracted to, alone and aimless. So yes, all the perverted things I do to subs - all the devious torture and relentless humiliation - come from love, from seeing the sub for the fellow human with specific needs that he is, and fulfilling those needs, without any judgment, or god forbid, hate. -- source link