murseguy:mistressmg:What does a true FLR (female led relationship) look like? Unfortunately, the
murseguy: mistressmg: What does a true FLR (female led relationship) look like? Unfortunately, the loving gentle nature of such a relationship is often skewed by the images portrayed in femdom porn. While I don’t speak for all female dominants, most of us are not leather wearing bitches beating down the poor, helpless males that happen to be unfortunate enough to marry a woman like that. That is the anti-thesis to a loving FLR, not to mention that is not actually a mutually negotiated, and agreed upon power exchange. The men that submit to us are not weak willed pansies. On this, I can speak with authority and knowledge as we are active members of a popular nationwide FLR group with real live couples that meet to support one another in our choices to live this lifestyle. Most of our husbands or partners are extremely masculine, with alpha male professions such as lawyers, law enforcement officers, medical professionals, and one corporate CEO. We are equal partners with mutual love, respect, and trust that have chosen to live a power exchange. Some of us are kinky, and we have chosen to participate in BDSM, some are experimenting in the cuckold lifestyle, and still others choose no kink at all. D/s does not have to involve kink; it’s about the exchange of power. We are just like our counterparts that choose a male led D/s relationship. We have a family, that we love and nurture. They see a mother and father that are a united team with an unbreakable bond forged in fire. D/s had made us stronger as a couple , better parents, better members of our community, simply stated… better people. On the outside, people see a couple in which the husband still opens doors, a couple who still hold hands after almost twenty years, a couple that supports each other in all things, a couple that loves each other with a true agape love. We revere one another. This life, our life, I wouldn’t change for all the riches of the world. It’s ours, and we live it our way without regret or apologies to anyone. ~Macie This is why I can let down my guard, and submit myself to You, @mistressmg. It’s wonderful having someone who is a safe place who you can bear you soul and desires to. -- source link