gymbunnycandiehart:You Can be a Boy and be Girlish If you’ve followed my little tumblr long enough
gymbunnycandiehart: You Can be a Boy and be Girlish If you’ve followed my little tumblr long enough, you have probably noticed the theme of being “girly” and not so much with becoming a girl, hormones, operations, etc. There is a reason for this. I’m an advocate for girliness among men. I do, in fact, make captions about becoming girls, but those are not as frequent and done to add some diversity. Listen to me on this: It’s perfectly fine for a boy to remain a boy and also want to be girly; and all without becoming female. I see that it is often portrayed that it has to be an either/or. For example, you’re either a boy or a girl; you either want to be a boy or you want to be a girl. And I ask, “Why must it be an either/or? Why can’t it be both/and?“ Why can’t I, or anybody enjoy being boys with girly instincts, passions, and desires? Why can’t I be both boy and girlish? Just because I love panties, cute shoes, and bras doesn’t mean that i have to hate being a boy or that I must undergo treatments to become a girl. It also does not mean that I’m a pervert or a sexual deviant. I relate with sissies, but that doesn’t mean that I crave to be sexually assaulted and humiliated either. I also have the utmost respect for people who transform their gender either partially or completely. But that’s not me, that’s probably not most of you, and that’s probably not a majority of men who have girlish desires. One size does not fit all. We are all so much more than any “either/or”. At this moment, I’ve got the man look going on. Put me in flanel and I’d look like a lumberjack. And chances are that if you saw me out and about, unless you noticed my women’s shoes or a VPL, then you’d think I was the typical man’s man–a stereotypical alpha male. To know me, however, is different. I am male with passions for girliness. Being a girly boy suits me just fine. I am both/and, not an either/or. I deserve the space to feel that way–and you do too. Respect me that I am a human being who is open to exploring a softer side of who I am. I feel like this has become more of a rant than anything. I don’t mean for it to be. I mean for this to be an encouragement to all of you boys out there who enjoy girliness, even if, and especially if, this pretty part of you is a secret. Don’t let anybody fool you into believing that you are lost or a coward because you are both a boy and a girlish person. And if anything else, you’ve got my support and friendship. I appreciate you for being you. Much love to you all! CandieHart PS–Happy ThanksGIRLing Day! -- source link