whereintheworldiskamalakhan: thebestpersonherelovesbucky:witchaj:poblacht-na-n-oibrithe: Straigh
whereintheworldiskamalakhan: thebestpersonherelovesbucky: witchaj: poblacht-na-n-oibrithe: Straight women should unionize What the actual FUCK This right here is a HUGE red fucking flag. If you’re in a relationship with someone who wants complete control over finances, especially to the point where you don’t even have access to money, this is an attempt to control and isolate. They will use ALL sorts of excuses. “I’m better with money” “You spend too much” “You’re too impulsive” etc. It has nothing to do with looking out for you or money. It’s straight up abuse and will likely lead to worse. Also, women need to be independent in every way they can. And they also need to know what’s going on with their finances, even if their husband makes all the decisions or whatever bs goes on. Because (true story), one day that husband could die and you’ll find out that you’re in a crazy amount of debt that you never knew about because he didn’t tell you shit and that gets to be a lovely surprise after the funeral. -- source link