astartexx:mslorelei:If you’re promoting changes to women’s behavior to “prevent” rape, you’re re
astartexx: mslorelei: If you’re promoting changes to women’s behavior to “prevent” rape, you’re really saying “make sure he rapes the other girl.” kiskolee: THIS. I always felt uneasy and baffled by rape prevention articles and now I know why. Are you people fucking kidding me? Is this real? It’s not “rape the other girl”. It’s “all women need to be acutely aware that, sadly, rapists exist and we must be careful”. you know, I know everyone feels special on a soapbox but you’re actually telling girls not to acknowledge that sex crimes happen and that maybe putting yourself in positions where it may happen should be avoided. There is no “other girl”. Those messages - the legitimate ones (not the morons who say stuff like ‘don’t dress like a slut!’ I mean real messages from people who are really concerned) - are for ALL GIRLS. -- source link
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