otterandterrier:Back then I was always looking ahead to who I wanted to be versus who I didn’t reali
otterandterrier:Back then I was always looking ahead to who I wanted to be versus who I didn’t realize I already was, and the wished-for me was most likely based on who other people seemed to be and the desire to have the same effect on others that they had had on me.© John Mitchell, 1977 -- source link