Realistic expectations!A lot of boys like to think they can take a mammoth bottom blistering, but
Realistic expectations! A lot of boys like to think they can take a mammoth bottom blistering, but I will tell you right now, the 50 swats with the paddle shown below will straight up destroy a posterior. Those who know me well know I have given an awful lot of 3-10 swat paddlings over the years. Seeing tears after that few is not that uncommon. Don’t go overboard at first. With that being said, when dealing with gentlemen, you cannot be gentle. Men are tough, and it takes a strong hand to get results. Do not stop to soon, and if using your hand or a light implement, let it go long enough for a serious burn. He needs to feel it for hours, if not the next day. You may need to sit him down and question him to honestly assess the amount he can handle. My Hubby and 5 year old daughter do not get the same spankings, make sure he feels it! Momma:kiss: -- source link