followyourslaveheart: bredbeta: “Don’t cry, this is just part of the process of molding you into wha
followyourslaveheart: bredbeta: “Don’t cry, this is just part of the process of molding you into what you’re meant to be.” Sometimes, in the process of becoming what we are truly meant to be, we can hit a wall with our development. For years, we manage successfully to deny our nature and pretend to be something we’re not, and were never meant to be. But eventually the feelings come back even stronger and we eventually have to accept that we were born for another purpose. The closer we get to our authentic self, the more the false self fights it. But that’s ok. We cannot be made to be a certain way…we are simply born like it. When we do find a Master/Alpha/Dom who can take us under His wonderful wing, and who sees us for what we truly are, all He does is gives us permission to accept our nature and helps and guides us to strip back everything that is not in line with what we feel inside. This can be terrifying sometimes because we have to let go of our fears and trust in ourselves, and Him. But we owe it to our slave/fag/sub selves to find peace and fulfilment in our servitude. Once we break through the barrier, we can come out of the other side feeling more free than ever before. Finding clarity, acceptance and surrender is the key to happiness. Always trust the voice inside that knows what you are and what you need to be doing. -- source link