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gamebird: gamebird: jumpingjacktrash: feminerds: itreallyisthelittlethings: thetimesinbetween: weareallmedie: lierdumoa: iwatchforsasha: Fantastic Breasts and Where to Find Them That second to last panel is chilling. reblogging again for linzeestyle’s tags, because, OMG, *TRUTH* #fandom#harry potter#this is the real reason fandom is mocked derided and insulted by creators#because it *can’t* be packaged and resold#because our culture doesn’t know how to sell sex to women outside of the male gaze#and because women have created a community where they don’t need to buy anything to get what they want#and to people whose entire livelihoods#depend on creating and marketing unattainable ‘perfection’ to young women#telling them what sex and sex appeal is#how they should feel about it#and how they should desire it#and what they need to buy to be worth it#our entire economy is based on women being cut into parts and those parts being sexualized#and turned back around and sold to men and women alike#and fandom doesn’t participate#it creates its own economy and there’s no space for that model#that’s terrifying#and the people who used to hold all the cards mock it#because they lost the ‘C&D and shut-down’ alternative #and because women have created a community where they don’t need to buy anything to get what they want I think about this ALL THE TIME. I fucking love it. Fandom is the most brilliant, beautiful, collaborative, critical, deeply subversive stuff there is and I ADORE IT TO PIECES. And no, it’s not all women—certainly not, absolutely not. But I’d say it’s vast majority women. (…Ridiculous crazy vast majority anybody-except-cis-men.) I know I often think of fandom as a feminine and/or queer-centered space. I’m reblogging for the added commentary and to add a link to a meta I recently came across. The whole thing is worth a read, but the first paragraph really resonates: The types of fandom that are most often considered traditional and acceptable, and which are often either male-dominated or coded as masculine, tend to be acquisitive, whether in terms of knowledge (obscure trivia) or merchandise (collectibles). Whereas, by contrast, the types of fandom most often considered insincere, non-serious or “unreal”, and which are often either female-dominated or coded as feminine, tend to be creative, such as making costumes, writing fanfic and drawing fanart. (via fozmeadows) I love this! Ofc young women/nb people/queer ids in hostile internet spaces are really into making things and presenting them instead of themselves. as a queer man, fandom was the first place i saw people like me get to be in love and not die for it. Speaking of that second-to-last panel, and this last comment from jumpingjacktrash, fandom was the first place I saw people like me get to be in love and be treated lovingly in return. I was handed over to my husband-to-be by my father with his directions to me that I allow sex when I did want it, and his directions to my husband that he should force himself on me even if I refused. My husband followed these directions. Fanfiction was a place where I could fantasize about people who took no for an answer and genuinely tried to make one another happy. Well, crap. That was supposed to be ‘allow sex when I did NOT want it’. -- source link