samcedesfanfiction: carefreeblvckgirl:Because of the patriarchal society you live in. Where if you c
samcedesfanfiction: carefreeblvckgirl:Because of the patriarchal society you live in. Where if you choose to own your own sexuality it’s frowned upon because it excludes the opportunity for men to objectify you without your permission. I knew two young women that were were in college back in the late 90s. They went to an HBCU and lived in a different town from were they worked stripping. One was working on their masters and the other was working on their phd.No one was helping them with money and didn’t want to be swallowed into a deep debt, so they did what they needed to do. I respect that. Missy Elliot said it best: Girls, girls, get that cash If it’s 9 to 5 or shakin’ your ass Ain’t no shame, ladies do your thang Just make sure you ahead of the game -- source link