growlbadkitty: girlsrule-subsdrool: The picture doesn’t do anything for me, but the caption is basic
growlbadkitty: girlsrule-subsdrool: The picture doesn’t do anything for me, but the caption is basically literally every reason I need BDSM summed up. I need my partner to constantly visibly & verbally re-consent that they do want me around and respect my choices, even when I feel so outside the typical norm. Enthusiastically continuing to play with me and showing affection is exactly how I see that and then I blossom more and more into myself without any censorship. Funnily enough, that doesn’t come from any internal self-doubt because I know I’m fucking amazing, it’s more that I need to believe that my partner actually wants me, Maria, and not a few months with a “cool kinky experience.” Agree completely. -- source link