stop-stalin-and-suck-my-dick: flexibility-love-andtrust: h-el-l: i made one For those that need to h
stop-stalin-and-suck-my-dick: flexibility-love-andtrust: h-el-l: i made one For those that need to hear it: It’s only manipulation when it’s intentional/premeditated. Otherwise it’s just your words having an influence on someone, i.e. The Concept Of Human Interaction. Sometimes that influence is good, sometimes bad. But never malicious. Being conscious of whether your words have a positive or negative impact is a noble endeavor, but you’ll never be a piece of shit unless you’re trying to. This is what the culture of calling everything abuse, manipulation, and gaslighting does to people. Sometimes something is just unhealthy or generally bad without being a master plan to personally ruin your entire life. Please learn the concept of nuance. Recently i got acused of this cause one :I fail to SEE a boundary and step on it by accident (having adhd make it hard to notice boundaries and is not Even on purpose)And 2 I vent to someone who knew the persón who i step on the boundary (wich was more me being an idiot)And got called manipulative and that i gashlight them…..dude if i knew to do that shit, i would have GET AWAY WHIT IT , I WOULDN’T FEEL BAD, and worse…. I WOULDN’T HAVE TRY TO APOLOGIZE In resume, at times people just do stupid things ,and is not Even on purpose, stop calling Every little thing a Master plan, i use to do that shit too and is just FUKING wrong and messed up SAME GOES TO THE “TOXIC” CONCEPT -- source link