newromantis: It’s the most important thing thinking about the idea that most girls’ natu
newromantis:It’s the most important thing thinking about the idea that most girls’ natural instinct is to look at others as their main competition. This has somehow been engrained in us since we were little girls - “She’s more competition for you than he is over there,” when really, when you go out into the real world and you’re trying to accomplish things, men and women are your competitors. But when girls are thinking too much about getting boys to like them or getting a boyfriend, I think that is when this natural competitiveness instinct kicks in and they start to look at girls as their competition. It’s so unhealthy.- Taylor Swift on competitiveness between girls in Dolly Magazine (April 2015) -- source link