thesubstation: rompersandsocks: Things Caregivers can say instead of “Don’t Cry&rdq

thesubstation: rompersandsocks: Things Caregivers can say instead of “Don’t Cry” “It’s okay to be sad, little one.” “This is really hard for you, eh?” “Don’t worry, you’re safe, Daddy’s here with you.” “Do you want to talk to Daddy about it, babygirl?” “I understand, babygirl, I hear you.” “That was really scawy/sad/frustrating.” “That’s a tough one, baby girl, shall Daddy help you figure this out?” “Do you need some space, babygirl? Daddy’s here for you, and he’s going to stay close so you can find Daddy when you’re ready, okay?” Littles can be very emotional sometimes, and not everything is Daddy’s fault, these phrases might help Daddy empathise, figure out what is going on, and stay sensitive to little feelings. *Daddy is interchangeable with Caregiver, Mummy, etc.*Babygirl is interchangeable with Little, Little One, Baby, Kitten, Puppy, Princess, Angel, etc.  THISAnd this isn’t only true of Littles as well. I can tell you when someone is going through something it never helps to say “don’t cry.”I often heard from my parents growing up to calm down or not worry or not be upset over certain things. When I was later diagnosed with anxiety, this often still happened whenever I’d visit them. It doesn’t help because if we could just make ourselves feel better like that we would.Whether you’re in a D/s relationship or not, take note of this when comforting your partner/S.O. -- source link

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