“When a queer person comes out, it’s about them having agency over their sense of self.
“When a queer person comes out, it’s about them having agency over their sense of self. Saying, “Oh yeah, I already knew,” suggests that you think their coming out has anything to do with you. Let me disabuse you of that sentiment before you go on being foolish in public.It is fine and lovely to simply extend congratulations! You do not need to prove to them how “it’s not big a deal to me, an enlightened and welcoming ally-type person!” because even if you mean well, it’s still not about you.”- @Trungles -- source link